Being successful is subjective

My mum used to say to us (that's my brother, sister and I) that we must study hard so that next time we will become successful.

Now that I'm older, I thought to myself, so what is the meaning of "being successful"?

I have went to parties and networking events, only to realise that everyone is talking about materialistic stuffs - what they own, what kind of watches they wear, been to which expensive restaurants, etc. Yawn.. its actually very boring. But if you stay humble and say you don't own that kind of expensive watches, they would give you a disgusting look.

Goodness! What happen to the so-call-art-of communication workshops that we signed up, hopefully that we could engage in a proper communication.

All too often we equate a successful life with material possessions. Yet, there are millions of people out there who lead successful, fulfilled lives who may be of modest means. They may not be rich in the financial sense, but they are rich in life and values.

Being successful is very subjective to different people. Somebody could be a great Doctor that work for a certain hospital, some could be a Doctor that set up their own business. So which is "being successful"? Working for someone else or setting up your own business?

Or rather, is it how many expensive things you own or expensive trips you went to is "being successful"? Or is it that you rather give that money to somebody in need?

Success comes about depends upon our relationships with others. Success is know-how, reputation and a network of contacts. If one day you have no money but if you can keep your smarts, business relationships and reputation, you get it all back.

Having knowledge, social capital and trust is the ultimate security blanket. People who become "successful" and miss a successful life are those who love things and use people. Be sure to put people as a priority in your life.

Stay true, be humble, never forget where you come from and never forget your roots.