What do Men Want

My friend urged me to write this after an indept discussion with her and I thought, oh well, I should. Certain things we do not agreed cos' I think that's what women want as well.

Women are offen unsure about what a man is really looking for.

• A man like to love and they like being loved in return. They claim that it is not easy to find a loving woman and how many men try and hang on when they think they have found their Miss Right.
• Men are seeking a woman who is attractive to them. Well, men can be so shallow and that looks could matter so much. Although, they aren't ooking for a model-type, but men do want a woman who look after their appearance (though not excessively). Men are proud of having a girlfriend who looks good.
• Men are looking for a trustworthy girl, someone they can have faith in and someone who will be there for them. (provided we, women found a faithful man) A man can never forgive a woman being unfaithful and so he is looking for trust.
• Men want to make a home eventually and are looking for a woman who will be a willing sharer in home life.
• Men are seeking women who are feminine gentle and kind. Although, they claim that they did not need mothering, though some do, it is that men seek women that would make a great mother to future offspring.
• Men want women with a great sense of humor, that she is able to fit in with their humor and is sociable and fun to be with. Such women are extremely attractive to many men.
• Men want someone who is supportive. Many women are quick to criticize men in their behavior, career and set about trying to alter them and mould them. This is a crucial mistake. They see their partnerships as support systems. The best relationships work both ways in terms of support. Where a woman is not able or willing to give that support and is too quick to criticize then she may lose her man.
• Men want a woman who can debate and converse and is able to discuss, and not shout when angry. ( well, men shout all the time than us)
• Men love a challenging woman, someone who keeps them on their toes. Men are lazy in relationships once they feel they're in secure territory. When a man is challenged, it make them sit upright. If you want to keep your man interested, keep him challenged.
• Men want a woman who will commit to them. (Though increasingly this is hard to find) Men want a girlfriend who they can share with and trust and be open with.
• Men don't want to be alone.
  

Men don't necessarily want to have children and settle down straight away, but it will come. They do seek respect from their partner. (Women expect that from men too)

Writing this actually make me uncomfortable. A committed partner is hard to come by.