Ever been in the circumstances where your spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend was having a tremendous time coping with his life, it could be his career, health, etc. It got so bad that you feel you may quit on him or just break down and cry, hoping things will be good again.
I remember the incident, whereby, I held back and put on a brave front. It definitely help because the last thing that I wanted was to make matter worse. It also show to your loved one that you are calm and compose and that you and your loved one will work things out together.
In life, no one can be totally spared from problems. Problems can be very stressful not just for the person but also to the other people around. It can lead to anger and depression because the situation happened to him.
If this happen to your loved one, never avoid him. Even though he may not realize it at the moment, this is the time he needs companionship and understanding. Sometimes by just being around is enough to help the person through the tough time. Sometimes a short conversation expressing one's feelings can do wonders for him.
Never push him but offer suggestions. It will be up to him to decide what he wants to do next. The effort must come from him and support him towards the direction.
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