Ever experienced a time in your life when everything seems to be going wrong for you? In fact you may even be going through such a time now.
Everyone has days when everything seems to go wrong. They said that we must recognize that days like this happen and not have an unrealistic idea that all days are going to be perfect, productive, smooth-flowing days. This is the key to not getting totally frustrated. It's also good to step back if we can. Don't just push and get externalized if things aren't working out right. Allow the mind to relax and the subsuperconscious to come through.
If everything seems to go wrong... turn around. We're probably facing the wrong way. This universal experience that everyone have in common. It is the feeling of disappointment and discouragement.
During our darkest hours we basically have only two choices. Choose to believe that our destiny is a matter of time, circumstance or luck and what happens to us is merely the result of some kind of fate. If this situation is correct then all our efforts are essentially worthless and our personal struggles in vain. If this situation is correct, then everyone and every action wind-up to the same conclusion. Another is to choose to believe that the planned path are of right choices and values somewhere come out at the right place. The right road eventually leads to the right destination.
Do ask ourself if there is anything that we are doing, or failing to do, that is causing the hardship or perhaps unnecessarily increasing the hardship.
However, no matter how successful we are, we still suffer hardships and setbacks from time to time in our life. If we are confident that we are on the right track then the best strategy is to increase the amount of goal directed action that we are taking.
2 comments:
what do ppl always say? fail to plan, plan to fail..
your entry reminds me of ppl with larger than life egos, and from what i know, it seems really hard for them to accept that some of the darkest hours in their lives have been caused mainly by their own choices/mistakes. and because they think it has got little to do with their own doing, they wait.. for the tables to turn around.. i wonder if it ever would.
talk about facing the wrong way huh :p
I think the worst is that there are some people who keeps blaming everything but themselves. Always take the initiative to act, to do and take responsibilities. However, there is a fine line b/w 'never give up attitude' and stubbornness. haha
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