Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Party Behave

Many people no longer know how to behave at a party. It's always better to be more formal whenever you're in doubt.

If going for the office party, do arrive no later than 10 minutes after the start time. If you don’t have gifts for everyone, don’t give any out. Presents for select colleagues should be given to them in private. Also, introduce yourself to the company big 'shots'. If they look like they’re busy, just tell them you enjoy working there and move on. And please try to stick to soda. Everyone only remembers the guy who danced on the tables.

If at a friend’s party. RSVP – even if it’s only a casual event. The host needs to know how many people they’re feeding. You can show up anytime between 5 minutes after the party starts, and 30 minutes before the invitation says it’ll end. And don’t bring flowers as a gift. They might not go with the decorations, but your friend will still feel obligated to set them out.

If its the Festive bash. Arrive no later than an hour after the start time. Bring a gift. They’ll have plenty of champagne, so opt for a morning after basket of teas and coffee Also, the best way to show your appreciation for being invited is to get into the spirit of the party. Not sure when to leave? Look for these signs: The music is turned down, the lights are turned up and the food is no longer being replenished.

Always say goodbye to everyone before you leave, including your host.

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