Keep Roving Eyes under control

I was amused after reading this article on "keeping those roving eyes under control".

"As hard as it is for most women to understand, men are wired to notice other women even if they think their wife is the prettiest girl in the room.
Some doctors blame a biochemical reaction in the brain. Many men will tell you it's just a habit.
The reality is men are visual beings and attractive women trigger a powerful emotional response. It is not a sign of emotional or physical unfaithfulness.
But guys, don't think that lets us off the hook!
You and I still have a responsibility to keep our emotions in check and roving eyes under control.
Simple glances can easily turn into a habit of staring, and it can also lead to lust.
On our wedding day we made a commitment to only have eyes for one women, and that's a promise we should keep. " - quoted by Dr Bill Maier.

I said women do look, too but perhaps women are just more discreet oglers. Or men are less inclined to notice our visual infidelity. Perhaps this has to do with males’ perception of being more attractive than they really are. Contrarily, women are more likely to underestimate their physical attractiveness than men.

And can actually avoid a lot of fights by not oogling every woman within eyesight. Yes, men are visual creatures; but you can glance without being so obvious. Of course, men really don’t only have eyes for her, but at least behaving will be much appreciated as women are very sensitive about their looks.

Rightly or wrongly, society judges us much more than men based upon our attractiveness. When men are constantly staring down other women, no matter how secure your girl may be, it bothers her deep inside. When your lust is stirred for another woman, especially a flesh and blood one in the real world, this is perceived by your girl as a threat to the relationship.

Also, because women often compete with each other based upon on their looks, you’re subtly signaling to the other woman that your girl is a loser. Are these the signals you’re intending to send? Do you enjoy fighting with your significant other about women you don’t even know and in fact, were simply admiring?

Ladies, that behavior can be changed by your man if, you are honest with him about your feelings and, he cares enough to change. If it persists, it will only manifest over time. You deserve better.